Romance In Middle Earth???

[Ainaserkewen]

From what I understand is that all romance and relationships in middle earth rely on looks, mostly.
I mean, faramir and Eowen don't even date and he says something like,
"You're beautiful and I love you, marry me."
After knowing her for what, a couple weeks. What happened to courting and dating and those heat of the moment things that you don't want people to know about. If you ask me that's pretty unreal. Tolkien must have really left out the romantic parts of the book.

And what about men? Don't they have urges and needs and all that? But I guess they're too noble to show it. Everything is very black and white, either he's evil, perfect or very confused(gollum/smeagol)
Come to think of it, the story itself is pretty unreal, despite all the details, the lauguages and maps and culture and stuff, you forgot something Tolkien!
Oh well, it's still the best movie and book and I love them all!