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Originally Posted by Sir Kohran
Well thank you for at least having the decency to apologise.
I haven't tried to personally insult you and would never want to do that to any member. My apologies if anything I've said has come across as rude.
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You may not have tried to, it may just be the way you word it on the computer. Saying "At least you have the dececy to apologize" (paraphrazed) sounds condescending, and as if Folwren has no other decency. I don't know if that is how you meant it, I am just explaining how it might be taken.
On computers it is very hard to tell what tone a person is saying something in. That is why on the Downs I try to stay away from sarcasm and rude remarks. I have a particularly bad way of saying what I don't mean. If you didn't mean to sound condescending and rude to Folwren, I understand. If you did.... Um, as I said, I try to stay away from sarcasm and rude remarks.
But, since you followed that sentence up with "I haven't tried to personally insult you and would never want to do that to any member. My apologies if anything I've said has come across as rude." I will assume you didn't.
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Originally Posted by STW
Folwren.... you deserve no reprimand . Your posts are from the heart and good spirited so you deserve only a smile.
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That is nice of you to say. I have never liked you better.
~Finduilas~