Is forum losing members?

[alatar]

Originally Posted by Tinuviel of Twilight

I just joined today! I remember coming across this forum many years ago. I started to delve into the LOTR series (I have only read them once) and now I am becoming steadily obsessed again.

Welcome, Tinuviel of Twilight. May you enjoy your stay. The circle of (online) life continues.

And the posts above regarding the purported average age of the Downers makes me feel old all the way to my bones...

[Feanor of the Peredhil]

Originally Posted by alatar

And the posts above regarding the purported average age of the Downers makes me feel old all the way to my bones...

Well when you have articles of clothing older than me, it's no wonder.

As I always say, you're only as old as the fashion you wear.

[Mithalwen]

But Fea...what about vintage? I used to wear my the evening dresses my mother and even grandmother saved from even the thirties in Grannie's case... even I am not that old!!! But I think I have a band tshirt about as old as you so maybe I am in the same boat as Alatar...or maybe that should be retirement community

[Feanor of the Peredhil]

Originally Posted by Mithalwen

But Fea...what about vintage?

I will never turn down a gift of jewelry from my grandma's jewelry box from the days of old. Very Galadriel and Arwen...

I wonder if it's possible to set aside some vintage posts for the elucidation of generations of 'Downers to come...

I know a few members have toyed with the related idea of creating threads containing the best posts of days or weeks...

I have in mind, more specifically, creating an internal canon of all of the Barrowdowner history and literature that one should know to be a truly educated wight.

[Hakon]

This site is like a goldmine for a book. I mean like someone could write a book about this site. The history of the downs with real quotes or top discussions of the downs transcribed into book form for the first time. I have a few other ideas.

[Formendacil]

Originally Posted by Feanor of the Peredhil

I have in mind, more specifically, creating an internal canon of all of the Barrowdowner history and literature that one should know to be a truly educated wight.

Umm... Fea... An "internal canon"? Are we aiming to get the old members back by restarting the canonical Armageddon?

Let's just push the big, red, button labelled "Canonicity" and watch the huorns march to war. I'll be in my bunker, aiming at can(n)on-fodder.

Originally Posted by Feanor of the Peredhil

As I always say, you're only as old as the fashion you wear.

In this case, I am looking to be, at the youngest estimate, about 120 years, with good reason to call myself 1300.

[Nogrod]

I wouldn't be worried.

I'm an elder and a relative newbie at the same time.

I joined the 'Downs on January 06 and I will be 42 before this year comes to an end. I joined because my daughter Lommy talked me into it - and it has been a very good decision indeed. I have not only had a good time playing werewolf, writing RPG's and discussing questions of varied nature with interesting and lovely people - but I have actually gained a number of new friends some of which I have been priviledged to meet also in person.

Even with my limited experience (too old a generation) I can agree with the few raising the point already: this feels like a community and the general mood is that of friendship and joviality - unlike on some other forums. The relatively small scale is just a positive factor here! And that I think is also behind the fact that in the end so many former 'Downers do after all come back. So why don't you look at the situation from that angle as well?

We have a host of new 'Downers every year - some of them staying, some of them leaving pretty rapidly. Only time will tell who of them stay and who will not. But I have seen many coming and leaving and many coming and staying - and make no mistake about it, it's the nice people who stay.

Everyone staying is an add on to the 'Downer community. And like in life there has to be renewal. We oldies should help and welcome the newer ones to take their place in here - and then by the time replace us.

Even if I think I'm playing werewolf at least into when I'm 80.. and give me an ethical-theological subject relating to Tolkien and I will sure be in if I just have time to read through the earlier discussion...

[Feanor of the Peredhil]

Originally Posted by Formendacil

Are we aiming to get the old members back by restarting the canonical Armageddon?

Yes.

I'm hoping to see who proposes each addition to the Barrowdowns Legendarium: the author, or the audience.

[Hakon]

What was this canonical Armageddon?

[Estelyn Telcontar]

Originally Posted by Feanor of the Peredhil

I have in mind, more specifically, creating an internal canon of all of the Barrowdowner history and literature that one should know to be a truly educated wight.

Go for it, Fea! That might be a fun way to create interest at a slow time of the year, and I'd definitely like to see what you consider worth rereading.

It's interesting how the questions of age and length of membership seem to come up lately. One of the great advantages of virtual communication is that such barriers are not raised at the outset of communication and may break down completely later. Let me add one related aspect:

Some of you hesitate to tell your age because you fear that being young means you could not be taken seriously. The same fear holds true in the opposite case. There are those of us, like myself, who belong to the older generation of this forum and hesitate to tell their age because they think perhaps young people wouldn't be interested in what they have to say if the teens knew they're as old as (perhaps even older than ) their parents.

We've had few family members of two generations here, though the most known family (Nogrod, Lommy and Greenie) has been a wonderful example of how that can work very well. This is a very rare online community, being open to newcomers and close-knit as internet friends simultaneously. I for one appreciate that atmosphere and hope that it will continue for as long as people want to experience that connection.

[Morthoron]

Originally Posted by Mithalwen

I used to wear the evening dresses my mother and even grandmother saved...

I used to do that as well, but not since the last arrest.

Originally Posted by Estelyn Telcontar

Some of you hesitate to tell your age because you fear that being young means you could not be taken seriously. The same fear holds true in the opposite case. There are those of us, like myself, who belong to the older generation of this forum and hesitate to tell their age because they think perhaps young people wouldn't be interested in what they have to say if the teens knew they're as old as (perhaps even older than ) their parents.

I have a 24 year-old son, a 15 year-old son and a 9 year-old daughter, so I've had a child once every decade since the 80's whether I've needed them or not. Only the 9 year-old has shown a lengthy affinity to Tolkien, but she esteems Middle-earth about as much as Tinkerbell or Spongebob Squarepants. In any case, I don't think it necessary to admit that I am farting dust, or whether another member still has adolescent acne. The forum is quite diverse in opinion, attitude and age, and that suits this old curmudgeon quite well.

As far as the ebb and flow of the fora (forum) elders, I like the thought that they have grown 'treeish' as Mithadan related. How very appropriate to the subject at hand!

[LadyBrooke]

Just a quick thought over why posting may stop by some members for months at a time (cough*me*cough) sometime there are external circumstances that can keep people from posting.

I for one have been missing from everywhere for months because of health issues. This tends to occur once a year usually from Jan. or Feb. into the summer months.

Aside from that sometimes you just need to take a break. I will admit to taking my posts a little too seriously and getting burned out. I do this in every part of my life, though, not just LotR stuff, for anybody thinking I need to be locked in the loony bin. (like my mom)

[HerenIstarion]

Some are just lurking in the shadows but never really quite gone

[Inziladun]

Originally Posted by HerenIstarion

Some are just lurking in the shadows but never really quite gone

Just as I said.
Always nice to see you, HI.

[Eönwë]

Originally Posted by HerenIstarion

Some are just lurking in the shadows but never really quite gone

That's good to know... or should I be scared?

[FeRaL sHaDoW]

Originally Posted by HerenIstarion

Some are just lurking in the shadows but never really quite gone

They sit, wait and watch but when the time is right they shall rise from the shadows and come forth to post once again and there shall be much celebration.
(Or atleast something like that)

[Tinuviel of Twilight]

Originally Posted by alatar

Welcome, Tinuviel of Twilight. May you enjoy your stay. The circle of (online) life continues.

Thank you! I am very excited to be here, and look forward to roleplaying.