Ok
Eorl I'll pop a couple of changes in. To be honest I think I had read that and just plain forgot
So, mother dead and raised by grandfather. Grandfather blames you for mothers death, BUT others in the area don't which and my character remembers vague bits of you and thinks you've been painted too much as the evil villain. Grandfather allowed my character to go into the army because the arguments caused so much strife at home.
That all sound fair? Oh and
Eorl, I'm a she!