Well I'm around Nerwen but I don't know if you want to hang around with the likes of me...

A couple of WW-related things (if anyone is willing to fill me in)
I remember a really good, quite fierce WW player from way back, in RL she was a young wife, tall I seem to remember, and possibly living in the Midwest. Her name is at the tip of my tongue and it's driving me nuts.
Also, a lovers question - when the roles were first introduced I remember there was a big debate about whether they had to be of opposite gender and eventually the conservative view won out. Is it still the case now?