About the lover issue:
I of course don't trust mine completely. They could be a wolf for all I know. But I'm certainly not going to vote them or suspect them. Even if I think they're a wolf, what would be the point of saying "ooh! ooh! lynch x! I think they're a wolf and want to seriously hurt our chances of winning by giving up the power to pm with a wolf and maybe get xem to reveal their packmates!"? Plus, what they say in private is private. No one should be lynched based on what their lover says.
In any case, there would be no reason for someone to think thier lover slipped and revealed that they're a wolf. Wolves are smarter than that. More likely they were an ordo trying to get you to slip and reveal that you're a wolf.