In what was an extremely pleasant suprise to me, Michael Martinez uncovered a rich mine of marital studies within the LotR contrasting the relationships of Tom and Goldberry with that of the Ents and the Entwives, found
here.
It is one of countless cases were major things seemingly ignored in LotR are in fact treated with subtlty and depth.
Tolkien went on to explore the theme of potential and real discord between the sexes in Aldarion and Erendis [in Unfinished Tales] in a very upfront fashion, and indeed how it began the first steps into darkness towards the Fall of Numenor.
But leaving aside non-LotR referencs, the criticisms of Muir and Wilson, to me stem from hearts that have long ceased to actively wonder and feel joy and sorrow apart from themselves, and lash out violently anyone who would dare disturb theirs [and so many others] slumber.
Excellent topic Squatter.
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